I've noticed a few more people looking lately. But I still have a way more to go.

I told someone the other day how much I weighed and they couldn't believe how much I had lost. They said I looked closer to 150lbs as opposed to how much I really weigh. Which I suppose is a compliment. Lol.

BTW, Nick. I just have to say, if that picture you have up is you, lol, and this is seriously embarrassing. You look like the guy from this horribly trashy novel I've been reading.

Okay, there I've admitted it. I read trashy novels. But not the icky 80's ones, more up to date ones. They've even named them "chick lit" lol. But anyway, just had to get that out cause it's been bugging me. Lol.

Guys are terrible about lusting after a "hot chick"

Thank God, for the internet...I have a fighting chance here. They have to actually read a paragraph or two before deciding.

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BTW, Nick. I just have to say, if that picture you have up is you, lol, and this is seriously embarrassing. You look like the guy from this horribly trashy novel I've been reading.

Okay, there I've admitted it. I read trashy novels. But not the icky 80's ones, more up to date ones. They've even named them "chick lit" lol. But anyway, just had to get that out cause it's been bugging me. Lol.

hahahahahahahahahahhahaha

really?, what's the name of it?

I'll e-mail you the title. I'd be wayyy to embarrassed to post it here. Lol.

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Kind of funny how these guys losing weight and getting in great shape say the ladies all of a sudden notice them. Funny how its men that are called shallow for this way of thinking in our messed up society.

Everyone certainly has preferences. Personally, I don't find short men, or skinny men - or ugly men, the least bit attractive. So, with my strong preferences, I definitely don't think men should be considered shallow for finding an attractive woman appealing. My point of contention lies with a man's personal conduct, when seeing an attractive woman. Most men, in my opinion, act, well, retarded. An attractive woman comes around and (most) men can't even display an ounce of social grace. It's such a turn-off and that is why I don't invest too much in the average man. He isn't much more than his physical, sexual lust(s) - definitely plural!

You make a very valid point. When guys act like this its too much but the line at what is considered interested and overbearing is very grey. If guys just got the point of leaving her alone if she is not interested it would make the world a better place.

Marker,

Your honesty is refreshing!