Nick wrote:

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"princess syndromes" are terrible. They've caught on like those ugly ass Coach bags and Louie Vuitton bags

My sister-in-law from Costa Rica saw it with her own eyes when she came to visit. She at first didn't want to say anything because she was not sure if I would take it the wrong way. She realized afterwards it was cool to tell me because I pointed it out and then the flood gates opened. She told me she was confused why these women act so mean and bitchy when they have so much compared to others around the world. I told her it didn't make sense to me either.

I am for equality but it has gone far beyond the equality level and now into "Oprah-egocentric-princess mode" with bitch shields on. Too bad these women outnumber the good ones. I wonder, does fat make a person inherently bitchy?

markerbull wrote:

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-egocentric-princess mode" with bitch shields on. Too bad these women outnumber the good ones. I wonder, does fat make a person inherently bitchy?

no i don't think this is the case, this is common amongst a lot of women, particularily girls who are the children of upper middle class, college educated professionals. The first generation to use luxury goods in everyday life and make it a style staple.

i don't think fat makes a person (in this case, women) inherently bitchy. There are fat women who do try to be sweet and have an honest personality. Many fat women do become bitchy because of an underlying mindset of obesity, that everything is theirs, and that they shall take what they want.

What I will probably tell my sons when they get older: Don't date a woman who has Princess written on her license plate or on a T-shirt, don't date a woman that carries a dog in a purse, and don't date a woman that has a Cinderella attitude (the I DESERVE to be taken care of and YOUR going to do it, now bow to me crap), and don't date a woman that refuses to take care of herself because if the going gets tough she will crumble under the pressure and bale on you, plus she will blame YOU for all of her faults and mistakes and expect YOU to fix them for her.

I like strong women, BUT these type of women are not strong and are very weak and clingy. And yes I am a strong woman.

Stephanie08349 wrote:

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What I will probably tell my sons when they get older: Don't date a woman who has Princess written on her license plate or on a T-shirt, don't date a woman that carries a dog in a purse, and don't date a woman that has a Cinderella attitude (the I DESERVE to be taken care of and YOUR going to do it, now bow to me crap), and don't date a woman that refuses to take care of herself because if the going gets tough she will crumble under the pressure and bale on you, plus she will blame YOU for all of her faults and mistakes and expect YOU to fix them for her.

I like strong women, BUT these type of women are not strong and are very weak and clingy. And yes I am a strong woman.

Good for you and thanks for doing this for your boys. They need to be protected from those lazy turds. Just think about it, who they pick is going to be apart of your life and having to listen to a self appointed princess drone on and on would be hell.

The way I see it, there are no free lunches, so either you can be

1) the princess who gets taken care of - but then you'd better look and act the part too, or you'll be ditched when you aren't worth the trouble anymore (and don't expect to get to decide on anything important yourself),

or

2) an independent person who is capable of taking care of herself, but who also is expected to take full responsibility for her actions - and who can be trusted with important decisions concerning both herself and others.

Mary45 wrote:

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The way I see it, there are no free lunches, so either you can be

1) the princess who gets taken care of - but then you'd better look and act the part too, or you'll be ditched when you aren't worth the trouble anymore (and don't expect to get to decide on anything important yourself),

or

2) an independent person who is capable of taking care of herself, but who also is expected to take full responsibility for her actions - and who can be trusted with important decisions concerning both herself and others.

Number 2 is the best choice in my opinion. Chances are if she has the self discipline to be like that she is more likely to take care of herself and insist on her spouse doing the same.

i do know how does it feel to be the spouse of a fat woman that does not want to do anything except eat and poop, my wife stoped having sex with me, stoped working, cleaning, cooking, even bathing herself sometimes... the list is long. i put up with it for more tnan four years because i love her and i believed i could change her, i tried to get on diet many times even work out with her, cook for her, offered to pay for a bypass surgery. she refused because her love for "Mr Macdonald" is stronger than her love for me. what else do i have to do?

We know all about your tale damceb. Sad thing it repeats itself over and over in marriages all over america.